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Mon, 10/12/2009 - 14:07 — Anonymous

I have a questions specifically for men. I have an amazing boyfriend who is everything I want and more. The only thing is he every now and then looks at porn online - While I know in my head there is no problem with it, I had a boyfriend years ago who was addicted to it so I automatically associate it with me not being enough, he wanting them, or him needing other women aside from me and what I offer.

My current bouy tells me that it isn't that way at all and that porn is merely a curiosity / intrigue thing for him...not about needing or wanting something else. While I believe him in my head, my emotions still hold on to my former associations with it. So my question for you all, is how is it for you? I am looking for real, honest responses, please. Thank you

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Wed, 10/14/2009 - 11:04 — Anonymous

Meaglesg01

no i get that part...i understand about learning things from porn and having it spice things up...it is about the emotional aspect. I need to feel like I am everything he wants and that him looking at porn isn't because he needs or wants something different- i think i deserve that much. And while he says this is the case, I still go to that other place in my head of feeling inadequate.

Mon, 10/12/2009 - 14:10 — Anonymous

yarimelma

Worry about it when you find a blow up doll in the closet ....
but then again probably he'll feed you the same crappy line... " curiosity hon curiosity "

Mon, 10/12/2009 - 14:08 — Anonymous

SenorBrown

Mademoiselle, a guy watches porn... and thats really it. Its why they made it. There is nothing much going on there. Other then, perhaps, learn a move or two. Maybe find out which moves are in season.

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